Comments on rewind revise: Breaking Up With Your BFF

Thanks for your comments. Nice to hear the guys pe...

2012-01-30T09:27:52.507-05:00

Thanks for your comments. Nice to hear the guys perspective.

This is a great post. I've had a friend since...

2012-01-27T21:29:01.798-05:00

This is a great post.

I've had a friend since high school (which for me was a loooooonnng time ago), who I have almost always referred to as "my best friend". Recently, I've been feeling distant towards him and realize that we don't do anything together other than an occasional phone call, which seem more like "updates" and on the few times I see him, we don't really do anything except relive old times. I will always be fond of him, but if I had a clean slate to write down friends I'd want to spend a lot of time with, I don't think he'd be on it.

I think friendships require attention and shared experiences. If one (or both people) let those things slide, the friendship is going to wane.

I think it is a little different with guys. At lea...

2012-01-27T17:18:32.920-05:00

I think it is a little different with guys. At least in the general sense. Shit still happens, gets in the way, or can erupt from something small. I guess people are people and shit happens. The real test is what you do once it does.